Saturday, December 11, 2010

Others as a reflection of your desires

The inside functions like a projector; others become screens and you start seeing films on others which are really your own tapes. OSHO

What we like and dislike in others reflects our inner core. This is a classic psychological principle that also applies to sexuality. That to which we are drawn reflects an inner craving that we must address. That to which we are rejecting also reflects an inner craving that we must address. As posted in earlier blogs, much of the way many individuals cope with sexuality is through repression resulting in a passive suicide. Take the opportunity to discover about what you crave by becoming mindful of your reactions to others. Your strongest reactions reflect a deeper truth. An open, honest and fearless examination of those reactions might create profound transformation and possibility.

The book I'm using a source.

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Cybersex Unplugged

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Yeah....It's "done" ---almost! Today I submitted the first full draft of Cybersex Unplugged to the editor! What remains is the final editing, and updating in response to editorial comments. However, the content is complete. The goal is to have the book published by the end of the year. Our goal was 6/30/10, and we only missed it by 6 months. I always underestimate the time necessary to complete these tasks.

Friday, December 3, 2010

Transforming Sexuality

Positive Sexuality

Anger is beautiful; sex is beautiful
But beautiful things can go ugly.
That depends on you.
If you condemn them, they become ugly,
If you transform them, they become divine.
Anger transformed becomes compassion
The same energy that moves into sex becomes love.


One of the most difficult aspects of transforming sexuality is the struggle to address the shame of sexuality. Our society has so many sex negative messages that it impairs many an individual’s journey toward sexual health. To transform your sexuality, become aware of the negative messages. Challenge these negative messages. Affirm your sexuality. Celebrate and Share your sexuality. Then you transform a burden into a gift.

The book I've been reading/using. You can download a kindle program for any platform.